Wednesday, August 11, 2010

So Much Love

If we had One Wish...it would be that you all  know how much we appreciate your care and concern and we feel your love.

We all realized that Tim & Machel knew a lot of people, but our family has been overwhelmed by the out pouring of love for these two amazing people. Everyone we talk to tells us the same thing "They’re our best friends" – and the thing is, they're right - they really were best friends with so many people. Hard as we try we just can’t seem to keep everyone up to date on what’s going on. So we’ve decided this might be the best way to let ya’ll know how Machel and the kids are doing and maybe just have a good group cry. We hope some of you might decide to share some of your memories of Tim & Machel and maybe even a picture or two along the way at MrsMay10@yahoo.com   Here’s a quick update to let you all know how far our miracle has come in just the last 4 days.

Day 1:  The EMT’s intubated Machel upon arrival at the scene and immediately transported her via life flight to the University of Utah Hospital on Saturday, August 7 at approximately 12:30 PM. When she arrived at the ICU she had no blood pressure and was not emitting any C02. Her Pelvis was shattered and she was bleeding internally. There were numerous broken bones and unknown head trauma. She had received a tremendous blow to her chest causing severe lung damage. She was rushed into emergency surgery in an attempt to stop the internal bleeding. They also stabilized her pelvis and inserted chest tubes.  Neuro Surgeons inserted a monitor to measure the pressure in her brain.  The next 24 agonizing hours were spent waiting for the next update from the medical team and praying to God that she’d pull through.

Day 2:  This day has been spent getting Machel stabalized, which this amazing team of doctors has finally been able to do.  She's a fighter and with all of the prayers going up on their behalf things are looking better today.
 
Day 3:  Baby Steps... That's what they're telling us today.  They've taken her into surgery to close some of the incisions made in the fight to save her life the first 2 hours in the hospital.  She's not stable enough to go to the operating room so they do the surgery in ICU.  She suprizes everyone after surgey when they turn off the ventilator and she breathes on her own for 45 minutes.  They administer 3 units of blood in preparation for additional surgery tomorrow morning.
 
Day 4:  The Nuero Surgeons give the Bone Doc's 2 hours today to fix her worst broken bone by inserting a metal rod into the femur to stabalize the bone.  They also realign her pelvis and reset the metal bar that holds it in place.  She's handled the surgery well enough that they're hoping to work on some of her other broken bones on Friday.  They're able to take her off the medicine that goes through her ventilator - this is a big step!!  Tomorrow we hope to get an update from the Attending Tramua Doc.  We'll keep you posted...

Love,
The Family

17 comments:

  1. I am so happy to hear that she is doing so well. Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Thanks for creating a blog to keep us all updated. :)

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  2. I am so greatful that you all were able to put together! we love her so much. she is a fighter and our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with her and the family.

    With love.

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  3. I always knew she was a strong woman but she is proving to be miraculous! She is in my thoughts and prayers at all times. How are the kids? Thank you so much for the update!

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  4. We of course are all praying for Machel and you as her family - Our thoughts are constantly with all you. Tim is certain to be holding her heart..... God Bless ~ Douglas, Nikki, Conner, Savannah and River Larsen

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  5. We love your family so much! Your family is amazing and very much loved. I know Machel and her family are strong and will continue to be strong. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Thank you so much for this blog!
    Please let us know if there is anything we can do, we are here for you!

    We love you with all our hearts!

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  6. Hi- I am so glad that you started this blog to keep us updated. I am Lynsie Flinders, John & Patti Pilgrims daughter. I went down Wed and saw Machel, and I am thankful that I had the chance to see her. I am also thankful to have known Tim & Machel throughout my life growing up. They were like parents to me growing up, camping, card games, and playing with Josh & Cassie was always a highlight of mine and my brothers.
    Tim will be missed greatly by all of us, he truly was an amazing, one a kind person. At this time it is very hard to accept what has happened to this family.
    We are praying each and every day for Machel, and her family to get through this as strongly as possible.
    Loves: Lynsie :)

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  7. Machel is such a fighter I know it is in her heart to win this battle. Tim is surely guiding her through it and holding her hand every step of the way. They will forever be in our hearts and our prayers. Julie, Kent, Kenlie and Dakota Argyle

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  8. With Machel's positive spirit she is sure to win this fight in style. We miss her personality and skills here at the office and await her return to continue where she left off. There is much love and many prayers for her speedy recovery. A donation fund for Tim and Machel has been set up at Alliance Credit Union. The addresses are listed below. God bless Josh, Cassie and all their family. Cheryl Madson

    At Alliance Credit Union
    *3012 S 1900 W Roy *1588 W 2700 N Pleasant View *2780 Adams Ave Ogden

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  9. We are leaving the light on for you, waiting for the day of your return. With love, Krystal

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  10. Thanks for the updates! You are in our thoughts and prayers.

    Love,
    Jennifer and Sam

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  11. Thank you so much for putting this blog together so all of ud who love Machel can keep informed on her progress. Machel is one of the strongest women I know! You and your family our in my prayers!
    ~Amberlee Shaw

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  12. I am sorry to hear of your loss. We will miss Tim so much. He was greatly loved and admired by all who knew him. My families prayers are with Machel, Cassie, and Josh at this time!
    I would like to help your family in whatever way I can through this difficult time.
    Please let me do whatever I can for you.

    You are all in my thoughts, Cammie Stuart Burlison

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  13. We can not imagine how hard this has been for you, and your family!! Machel, our thoughts are with you during this very hard time, and always! We send our love, well wishes, and our hope. That you will make a miraculous recovery, and can continue to love, be beloved, and be happy as Tim would wish for you!! With much love, Frosty & Sharee Sorensen & Family~

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  14. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. We're so sorry for your loss. Stay strong as Tim would want you to. Machel is a strong woman and will pull through. If you need anything, let us know. With love, Jim & Charlene Carter and the Sacco Family

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  15. Our thoughts and prayers are with Machel and family. Hang in there! Thanks for the updates! With Love, Tammy & Terry Yates

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  16. If you are going to move her to a care facility, check out HealthSouth Rehabilitation in Sandy. They specialize in Traumatic Brain Injury as well as Physical Therapy. They have the best of everything including a wonderful Neurologist, Joseph VickRoy.

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  17. My thoughts and prayers are with you all and I am glad we are able to keep updated on Machels progress. Not a day goes by that my heart doesnt ache for Cassie and Josh and family. Tim will be missed so much and forever remembered. Be strong kids, your mother will be well soon with all the prayers going out to her. Our love and prayers are with you. Joanne Smith and the Clark family

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